The problem with giving a man everything in the beginning of a relationship is that he doesn’t have anything to work for, to achieve. That doesn’t mean that you can’t go out with a man, make love with him, or move in with him– but there must be something that is saved, something more he’ll get if he marries you or makes a commitment to you. Otherwise, what’s his motivation? There’s no challenge. Dole out Your Love Goodies like Treasures Never let your guard down. Even when you start a relationship on the right foot and love is in the air, that doesn’t mean its okay to let yourself tumble head over heels. Just look at Beth and Tony. They fell in love instantly, and became inseparable after one date. He brought her flowers every night. She put little love notes in his pocket every morning. Everything was roses and romance until one day…Beth forgot to note. Tony was crushed, so crushed, in fact, that he didn’t buy her flowers. Then Beth was crushed, too. If Tony had not brought B...